3-parties Relationship

In the romance relationship, there’s only either you, yourself becoming the third person, or you naming the somebody else the third person. I had seen the both kind of relationship. Both did not give me a good feeling either.

Sometimes, I just couldn’t understand why somebody would choose to be the third person. Does the person really seem to be so important to you? Does the person really mean that much to you? Would it be so difficult to live without him? Hell no!!! Of course, I understand break-ups are always hurtful. But, you are not supposed to intrude the relationship for your simple need of love from that somebody. I mean, come on, where the heck is your dignity!?  If the person truly loves you with all his/her heart, you wouldn’t have been being the third person already!! There might be some situations, which the third person has totally no idea that he or she might be the third person, but you would still find things out one day, and when you’ve found out, get lost already! Why remain visible in the relationship, make someone’s life miserable?  Some of the third party people even tell me that it wasn’t their fault as they were invited into the game of love. For God’s sake, you could’ve accept reject it!

As for the poor victims with their romance relationships being intruded by a third party, let me tell you something, GET YOUR FAT ASS UP AND MARCH RIGHT AWAY TO THE EXIT! What for do you want to stay in the relationship with the player? Don’t be fooled when they say

‘XXX and I are just friends.’

Of course, there might be chances that they are true friends, but I’m talking about when you are already 100% sure that they are doing something more than friends would do.

‘I play play with XXX nia, not real one, the one I really love is you.’   Oh, play play la. Who knows if you’re play play with me too? OUT!

‘I’m sorry, baby. I really love you, but I just couldn’t control myself. I’m really sorry, please give me one more chance. I promise you it won’t happen again.’

First of all, those were the most common speech you would hear when they got caught red handed. Secondly, why fall for one who can’t control his lust? Third, what for to give him another chance? Another chance to lose control? And fourth, promises can be made broken. Lastly, don’t tell me you’re sorry ’cause you’re not, Baby when I know you’re only sorry you got caught.

And for those who had already got rid of the three-parties relationship, Stop whining about how bad that jerk had treated you or how ^#*@%$ the third person was. Don’t even think about revenge. Be wise, FORGIVE and FORGET. Walkaway, get a new life, get over it. It is useless to do anything for the worthless.

That’s all.

Lost and Found

All of a sudden, I don’t know who I am anymore… Nicholle…Nicholle…Nicholle… What has gotten into you?

Wait a minute… I am still me! Only a more coward me… I used to do things without thinking of any consequences, but now I’m thinking too much of it. For the passed 17years, 5months and 11days, I’ve gone through the 7 capital vices. Gluttony was first to arrive, which is why I’m fat and got criticised by relatives. Then, sloth came by, followed by lust, after that, came the other four vices one by one. And now, 7 in 1. I’m a deadly sinner. As to control myself, I thought about every consequence that one could lead to another everytime before i start up with something. I even have to put on a visible chasity belt on myself. Guess how deadly I was. 7 vices in 1 soul. Shame on you, Nicholle. Shame on you. And being a coward is good for you. At least, when you think a lot, you would lose the courage to sin again. At least, obeying your momma, let her cage you up within her eyesight wasn’t such a bad thing, not at all… You deserve it, Nicholle, admit it!

Today, I had lost and have found myself

Walking In The Rain

Ever since my brother got transferred to Chung Ling (Pvt.) High School, this was the second Saturday-Morning walk I’ve taken part in. Early in the raining morning on the next day of The Malaysian Labour Day, I went for a walking-in-the-rain walk around the Air Itam dam. I did not want to bring an umbrella with me as much as I did not expect the rain but my mom insisted me to. standstay under my umbrella-ella-ella,eh,eh,under my umbrella-ella-ella,eh,eh,eh,ae-ae-ae…

Photographed by me.

I enjoy the walk, I like last Saturday’s Jog-Around-Botanical-Garden better.

XD

Random pictures I’d captured along the walk

I like this one. Too bad it got blurred.

This was after the rain, it’s weird ’cause there was no rainbow.

The dam.

The was the last scenic shot before departing the dam.

Blog tidbits :  The Not-So-Ordinary Curry Mee Food Stall.

That was a classic.

The stall was located somewhere near the Air Itam Wet Market

The extraordinary of THE stall is what interest a traveler from THE big city like me.

When I first saw the stall, I was like ‘Ooooo… Aaahhh…Fascinating…’

I was impressed by the old lady’s will to keep the ol’ traditional er… (wordless)

Anyway,

Yo, travellers!

In case you don’t understand the words written in the picture above,
It means
The stall is open on
Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays.

Alright.
That’s all, folks!

Hello earthlings!

Here comes my first post.
After  2 attempts to blog in Penangkees, 2 in Xanga and one in Blogspot and none of my blogs were able to be everlasting, here i am in a brand new environment, with a brand new blog.

Let’s break the ice and get the party started!